The “loving” response is to celebrate gay lifestyle choices. The “hateful” response is to encourage men who are attracted to men to make informed choices about their behavior, based on both science and the Bible. It would be “racist” to discourage black men from engaging in an activity that has a 50% chance of killing them while they are you.
I miss the days when words like “loving”, “hateful”, and “racist” had their real meanings, back before the intolerant left started twisting every word they could redefine.
Imagine if they tried the same approach with heroin, crack and crystal meth addiction...better yet, imagine if they took the same approach with drunk driving.