“I asked the question.”
You did, and I said just because someone has a nickname they go by doesn’t mean they’re ashamed of their birth name. Why don’t you ask Ted the question, since obviously nobody here can answer your loaded question correctly.
I'm reluctant to contact Rafael, or "Ted" as you call him because they would open up new avenues for him to solicit funds from me ... another Heidi email. I assume you already contribute. If you please, at your next contribution, ask him why he does not use the name he was born with.