That has been the argument for why women shouldn’t work. Women wanted the chance to work. Don’t use it now to justify staying home.
See the picture above, read story below - there is no way a woman can compete on the battlefield under combat arms.
The Great Social Experiment Takes the Field - In the War of 2020
http://usdefensewatch.com/2016/02/the-great-social-experiment-takes-the-field-in-the-war-of-2020/
Those other arguments are for non-combat jobs, to work, to get paid; it is not a matter of staying home or being in the military - this is about living or dying, your life or your death and those around you.