Please. Do what ever you have to do enjoy life and be grateful for blessings you got. OK, that's big talk coming from me as someone who's finally on top of things; but 15 years ago when I got permanently kicked into an early retirement, had to move w/ a wife and 2 kids and build a new home and a new life. It all worked out (tho I didn't know at the time it would), the kids have all prospered and we're all grateful for the adventure.
The fact that things work out is just one reason to be happy. The other is that a negative outlook impairs judgment and I'm remembering it was a time when I needed all the good judgment I could get.
Expat, thanks for that advice. My job was oilfield related sales. I was in that business since the mid 90’s. Lost my job at the end of December. Working to move to another industry. I have jumped industries 3 times before and have always landed on my feet, but the process can be a grind. Have to keep my eye on the prize, but also take time to appreciate being off the rat wheel for a while.
Expat, thank you for your very kind reply. I am happy that you turned this around. I have had two other big battles in my life. The latest was the recession of 2007-2009. We sold some properties to hang in there with the business and have gradually stabilized 2010-2015. We turned enough cash during those years to support our family and to hopefully limp towards retirement. Got one kid through college and one still there. Facing another battle seems daunting and may cause us to lose our remaining assets. Your point about maintaining judgement is right on. Fortunately my wife has good judgement and is God sent. Additionally God has been there for me in the past.