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To: cloudmountain
You were taught, but some of us were not taught.

When I was in my late teens/early 20's --- this would be 40 years ago --- I was in a number of work situations with minority males. If I were alone with one of them in a room or an elevator or a car, almost every one of those men would try to grab, clutch and kiss me or worse. It was made clear that if I complained, I would be in trouble; they wouldn't be.

They never tried it in groups, and never tried it where there were observers. The only way I knew to deal with it, was to avoid them at all costs. It was, I think, before the term "sexual harassment" had been invented. I thought it was "just me." I was too dumb and naive to realize they were doing it to all the female employees.

As for physical resistance, I always struggled free and they never pursued. But I was aware that any one of them --- even the old guys-- could have broken my jaw with one blow. That does tend to dampen a girl's fighting spirit.

I do think everyone should learn to fight. If I had daughters, they would have ALL gotten self defense training.

17 posted on 01/16/2016 7:24:35 PM PST by Mrs. Don-o ("Diplomacy is the art of saying 'nice doggie' until you can find a rock." - Will Rogers)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
If I had daughters, they would have ALL gotten self defense training.


28 posted on 01/17/2016 11:25:32 AM PST by Gritty (Syrians aren't Jews fleeing Nazi Holocaust but Nazis relocating from a bombed out Berlin-DGreenfield)
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