I was exactly like your daughter. My neighborhood was full of boys so I loved doing the “boy” things. My mom was very supportive. My brother and I used to build model cars and I asked for a got a football uniform for Christmas when I was nine and played with the boys. I never thought I WAS a boy, I just like doing what was considered “boy” things. I still “liked” boys, thought they were cute and had girl friends at school. I turned out just fine.
These people are just nuts.
Me too...a Tom boy....in the 50’s...played with building blocks with my little brother...never had a Barbie ...liked running around being active when I didn’t have my nose in a book. Was a gymnast when it was NOT cool to be... My mother never really understood it and referred to me as a late bloomer when I was in my 20s...