The “don’t get the license” was for the minister.
And that’s okay, but people have to know how to protect their own rights, though ... and this is an important warning. They may be VERY UPSET in the future if they find out what they thought would apple automatically to them ... doesn’t apply. I wouldn’t want this to happen to anyone ... unknowingly.
BUT ... I have seen some people who have KNOWINGLY SAID that they would give up all their rights under law, pertaining to being married ... and if they are “aware” of that, and they choose to do it, then they have made their decision and that rests on them ... for anythig that happens in the future.