Men need to stop dating women until they stop with the head games.
Save your money and sanity. You can still father kids in your 50s if you want.
In the words of fictional crime boss Francis Costello, “ I do not need *****, but I like it.”
As for having kids in your fifties, you too can be the out of touch clueless old foggy parent you remember from your youth. I think we all remember the type. It also makes it harder to throw batting practice to your teenage son when you are 68 years old.