Although the desire to procreate, as you put it, is “hard wired”, raping a woman simply because you want to have sex is not only abhorrent, it is also criminal. Condoning thus behavior under the guise of “sowing wild oats” is contributing to sexual crimes against women.
This is the men answering based on their required “womens studies” class lectures ,, it’s rape even if the woman initiates the encounter if you don’t have permission in writing.