Uuuuuhhhhhh, sorry, its called A Family Care Plan. You signed it, you know what is in it, now STFU and execute your orders, they are still called orders or are they called invitations under this new CIC.
Let me be clear — The family care plan says who gets your child as a single parent when you are mobilized. Once you receive your orders the debate is over the child goes where the child was designated to go. Case over no more discussion. Or, the biological gets custody in the absence of a FCP...not debating whether or not she chose to execute her orders. Stating a fact. Trust me, executed the FCP three times, I am quite familiar.