Wow....sorry to hear this. Without getting into my case in depth I will mention one incident of the three that happened. I too finally figured out what happened on my own. The hospital was giving my family member insulin cause they thought she was diabetic, which she was not. They overdosed her on insulin one evening & she was rushed to the ER from a rehab facility she was in.
They told the ER they thought she was having a heart attack. They covered up the insulin overdose. so the doctors in the ER had no idea what was really happening. I got there in time to inform them of what I thought was going on.
Very frustrating.
We put her in Memory Care assisted living and they got the hospital records. They kept wanting to put her on a Diabetic diet.
I used to work in nursing homes {maintenance} and my wife before going quad was a CNA she saw a lot including the place we worked at covering up an incident where her grandmother a patient there was injured and passed the next day. The House Supervisor RN was the one who hid it. The worker that was involved another CNA told my wife what had happened. A door had stuck shut and while she was trying to get out swung open into her grandmother in the hallway. Something my wife understood as just one of those things it could have been her.