Sound like a honest mistake
I be asking same question
Who’s the lucky lady LOL!
Yup. As I said to my spousal unit (wife may be sexist): how do you take 1000's of years language (that being marriage relationships are male/female) and within 5 or less years delete these from the culture's lexicon entirely.
But as a young person in my town said to me on a similar incident - you need to evolve, old man. (flashing back to Vietnam "re-education camps" for the elderly after the fall of Saigon)