Don’t want to raise a collectivist?
Be there for them. Teach them. Tell them stories at bedtime. Take them to church and teach them about God at home. Love them. Hug them. Listen to them. Watch them. Know everything about them. Love their mother with a passion and stay with her. Be loyal. Tell them no. Spank the slobbers out of them when they need it. Laugh with them. Take them shooting. Make stuff in the shop with them. Warn them about the follies of foolish living, which includes collectivism. Show them what fools look like and what wise people look like.
My kids learned a lesson on socialism at an early age.
Familiar with the practice of “grade norming”?
A kid making all A’s has to give up some of their grades to a kid making C’s to make things fair. Both of my A kids said hell no to that. They had worked for those A’s and the C kid didn’t.
End of the lesson.