I feel the same way, but “Indian-American” is more concise than writing “my parents came from India”. I don’t think it’s worth getting stuck on nomenclature.
I am a strange mixture of human DNA. People don’t readily know what ‘race’ I belong to, be they white, black or even Asian. I have been asked by many people what group I belong to. To make things even more difficult for them, I have a deep Southern accent because I was raised in rural Mississippi.
Just two days ago, our neighbor of 12 years from across the street, a Korean lady, asked my wife what I was.....................
Let me quibble: Maybe I say the hell with it when martial law is eventually imposed here and move (escape?) to Canada. Think about how clunky “I’m now an American-Canadian” actually sounds.