Government has got to get out of the marriage business sooner rather than later. They have nothing but contempt for the institution and are utterly incapable of defining it.
That is a stupid remark, that doesn't even make sense.
The libertarians created that straw dog out of thin air to create a distraction to use among gay marriage opponents.
Either gay marriage is legal, or it is illegal, if you don't care about complying with the law yourself, then don't, you can call whatever you want to "marriage" for yourself.
Simply call for a statewide referendum. It will pass— then it’s over. keep up with the law.