A silly,stupid,(perhaps even lonely, but really a jerk,)old fool. Was being serviced by a young female gold digger who was in turn being was being serviced by much youger black bucks at his expence which she paraded in front of him. Just to piss him off. Somehow after speaking with her lawyer sets up a situation where the dotting dupe seeing what little loyalty to him he expected from her being destroyed. Vents his frustration over a taped phone conversation that suddenly gets made public.
I agree. His problem was that she was embarrassing him when seen in public with oversexed young studs. He explicitly had no problem with her seeing other men (black or otherwise), even encouraging her to have sex with them in private.
She was humiliating and diminishing him. If she didn’t like the rules, she could leave at any time.