This is exactly what I’d do.
A person only has as much power over you as you give that person.
Speaking for myself, I will never recognize homosexual marriage. It serves no purpose, it offends me, and it offends the God that I believe in, so no.
I do not care if some person in a robe who went to some school and got some degree then got appointed to some job tells me I have too...I ain’t f***in’ doin’ it.
Apologies for my language, I’m getting tried of this nonsense ;/
They don’t care about you. The opinion that matters is your children’s. That is where this battle is.