13 gates...just “come out” already! Are you “man enough” to admit your proclivities?
Doesn't seem to be the case. First sentences from the article ...
MOUNT VERNON, Washington — Robert Gates and his wife Becky took a road trip last summer, driving from their home in Skagit County to Glacier National Park in Montana. For many, that would be a typical summer vacation, but for the Gateses, it was remarkable. It was their first trip alone in 42 years, without kids and a federal security detail. ...
He married his wife Becky on January 7, 1967.[17] They have two children. Gates is 70 years old.
Could be a bi-closetman?