unfortunately, my point was all too often we hear after a needless/reckless shooting/killing of an innocent civilian/bystander that "You & your partner went home safe - that's all that matters!" unfortunately, my point was all too often we hear after a needless/reckless shooting/killing of an innocent civilian/bystander that "You & your partner went home safe - that's all that matters!"Sorry then. I didn’t interpret it as sarcasm. It would have been small comfort for someone to tell me that “at least you can go home tonight” if I had shot someone who was innocent. I would have regretted it, and relived the image, every day for the rest of my life.