Sorry to hear this. But, maybe VA deserves it. Talking to my daughter (who lives there) about this election, she did not have a clear understanding about the issues, and she’s a very smart woman. That means the candidates and the press did not do their jobs.
It’s not the same state I grew up in. Like the Cold War Soviet defectors, I escaped to freedom in the West. Tell your daughter to do likewise. No reason to remain in a state where everything is controlled by carpetbaggers from New York and Maryland, residing in just three Northern counties: Fairfax, Loudon, and Arlington.
Of course they did, that is why she didn't understand the issues.