OK here we go. Everyone who raises animals for a living will tell you that the offspring may look like their fathers but if raised only buy the mother they will have her attitude. Think of horses in this picture. It sounds simple but it is true and accurate.
Black men have a very poor performance record as fathers who are present and engaged in the home. This leaves the children to be raised by very angry mothers. They are angry with their situations. They think the world owes them a living that they do not have to earn themselves. They think they are all victims who have been taught by their mothers to survive not from their own work but from the work and taxes of others. It is generational and every generation is worse than the last. You get the idea.
These angry, entitled, and "I'm the victim here", attitudes are what you see in their children.
Yes, when raised by these angry women you get all of their angry and defiant attitudes.
If you do not believe this to be true ask black men why they do not stay home with their wives and kids.
Witnessed a sixtysomething "child" at a local drugstore this afternoon.
This woman entered the store following a bus driver on his break. Apparently her problem was that he wouldn't let her ride his bus for free.
She cursed a blue streak at him, which included statements such as "You work for the white man! You don't own ANYTHING!" (perhaps a rejoinder to an offstage comment from the driver that "It's my bus and you have to pay your fare"?) and "If I were a white woman, it would be a different story!" etc.
The (black) bus driver smiled and shrugged it off, and paid for his purchases.
Spot on.
We've got whole classes of people competing to be biggest 'victim'... it's sick. I'll be back with a link to an article that backs up your words. You'll love it.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-bloggers/3097141/posts
From the link:
An identity defined in terms of victimhood needs fresh injections of oppression to sustain its existence. Those African-Americans who define “blackness” not in terms of positive values but in terms of negative values, need white racism, the real thing or the fake one, to remind them of who they are. And the same holds true for other oppressed minorities who define themselves not by their culture or values; but by their resentments.
The primary reason black men don't stay at home with their wives and kids is that, if they did, the welfare money would dry up.
Beyond that, there are two other controlling reasons:
1. They women aren't "wives"; they're not married.
2. Only one of the kids is their's anyway; the rest are somebody else's.
Figuring out who to live with is a very complicated matter. I've heard black men spend hours discussing and comparing the "papers" for various women in making this determination.
I worked with a very intelligent guy, whose father was a biker in prison for life, raised by his mother. He was a rather large over-nourished whinny woman in personality, very liberal in spite of his logical leanings. Being raised by women leads to an emotional state of mind, rather than a logical or rule following and self sufficient mode of behavior. This guy wanted to be in charge but always had an excuse as to why someone else was responsible for his failings, and he gravitated towards women to empower him at the same time. Eventually he was relieved from post and reassigned to DC losing his follow on assignment to Brussels. While there is justice, sometimes knowing the genetic or mental makeup of a person is important when choosing a place to work; no one in their right mind would want a career working for an alcoholic and a man raised by women in the workplace only begets pain and suffering for all associated.