One of the things I do with my son is I check packaged foods for peanuts in the ingredient list. But every once in a while I give him something I know contains peanuts. I’ll let him get the food almost to his mouth before intervening. I tell him he cannot rely on ANYONE to be diligent for him. He needs to be his own last defense and he needs to read the ingredient list himself.
Having said that, a couple months ago he ate something that apparently had some cross contamination. That happens occasionally. Chucky Cheese had some flour once that had been cross-contaminated at the flour factory. This time, I happened to be driving right past the hospital when he realized he couldn’t breathe.
+100. See, you’re realistic about this.