Well if he voted for JFK he would have to be about 100 years old. I am serious about telling the priest she is pro-abortion. If he knows he might not do the marriage. Cafeteria catholics are making a mockery of the faith. They need to be called out.
I was raised a Catholic but no longer accept Catholic doctrine on several fronts, so I do not pretend to be a Catholic. I accept the church’s right to its own rules. But both of my sisters - who also do not accept many aspects of Catholic teaching, both morally and theologically - nonetheless feel justified in acting as Catholics when they feel like it, such as receiving communion after decades without sacramental confession.