That’s why we wouldn’t live in Houston when my wife’s company moved there. My wife drives 55mi each way to her job, but loves living outside the crime and lib madness that is Houston.
I lived less than 10 miles from work for years. Then Austin annexed that area, so we moved to just over 15 miles. Same thing when Austin annexed that area, so we moved 35 miles from work. I carpooled for over 20 years.