I see your point. You can’t have mixed singles as it were. Not for the couples sake but for the sake of the single folks.
But homes seem to be expressing an “ick” factor that would have us lableled as bigoted and prejudiced against the disabled. Not to mention paternalistic: she doesn’t know how to consent to sex? Really? You[they] know that how?
Perhaps a “new paradigm” can be created. They love creating paradigms all the time.
I don’t work with disabled women, but I can imagine having the lack of an ability to consent being a real issue.
It’s okay with me if women-only homes for the disabled choose to stay that way. (Even though already I’m sure they’d be obligated to take in those who ‘identify as’ women, but are men.)