nope it was my friends ultra nice second house in Scottsdale and a bunch of us girls went and we kept track of all expenses and split them. no free lunch, “insult” is silly
I can just tell you that if a houseguest - whom I had invited - offered to pay me, I would tell him that if he were looking for paid accomodations, there are several hotels in the area.
Who does this?
When you have friends for dinner do you give them a receipt for the cost of the groceries and labor to cook the meal?
I’ve never heard of such nonsense.
Hank