My only mistake was word usage, not concept. When I used the word permissible, I had meant ideal. I don’t think there’s anybody here who thinks they should be having kids out of wedlock, or until they’ve built the proper foundation for children. The problem is we’ve pushed the definition of proper foundation into the late 20’s or early thirties, which means people have to spend the greater part of their reproductive life being celibate, by that definition.
As far as lying goes, you should probably attend to the tree in your own eye, rather than concern yourself with the sliver in mine, eh?