If you don’t consummate, it’s not a marriage.
You posted: If you dont consummate, its not a marriage.
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That is old, backward thinking. We are redefining marriage, so what is to continue to require that it be consummated? /sarc
But, by the way, what is the meaning of consummate? Can a marriage (under the current, for now, definition) be consummated any way other than by “straight sex”? Forgive me, but would anal or oral sex qualify to consummate a marriage?