I wouldn’t blame just the moms, the dads think it is manly to ride the baby around in the backs of their cars, like it proves they are a real “mayan” and their mothers, the baby’s grammaws fight the mothers for the babies. It is a steaming mess.
Seriously and ideally, if the women only had sex after marriage to a well vetted, established, and upright man,
there would be a lot more established and upright men to choose from to marry.