So if they quit their jobs, and go on welfare, you’d be ok with that?
And as someone who married an “idiot who left me”, I can say that it isn’t always possible to predict that. I married a “Christian” Eagle scout who was active in our Baptist church, and who claimed to not believe in divorce. I don’t feel it’s my fault that he went off the beam.
1) Welfare, in a case like this, is an idiot who will leave them
2) Marrying with full expectation of not being abandoned is certainly not marrying an idiot. It’s marriage in this time. Men leave their families with no social stigma.
Women are supposed to marry a provider. It’s a concept, which, until it comes back, we will have this trouble.