This is insane. How do gays prove they are in a relationship, get ID cards for significant others etc. I am divorced and remarried. My new wife and I went through the pitts to get her registered on post etc. It took three tries and three appointments, and we had all the paperwork and documents together. This is going to be a nightmare and anyone who has dealt with family assistance and DEERs should realize this!
"We're not homosexual, but we're willing to learn."