My nephew is homo (he is also my most favorite boy in the whole world). He came out before his 15th birthday. When he told me....he knew about my sisters and my own beliefs about homosexuality.
When we talked about it, I told him he can be as gay as he wanted....as long as he remained a virgin (still is)and didn’t act upon his impulses.
Our conversation was with much love and laughter. I did tell him if he EVER brought home an older man as his “bf” I would have to take the old perv out. We laughed about it, but he knew I was serious.
I would take out the perv, no matter the consequences to myself.
I think that if some young males like girly things or are gangly/awkward they are a square peg pounded into a round hole. They HAVE to be homosexuals, right? So they are shoved in that direction when it may NOT be the case.