Virginity out of wedlock is a huge stain on the honor of the family or tribe.
Honor died out here years ago.People here think sex is like a pair of shoes you have to try them on before you buy them.
Hmm, these 9 D are too small, bring out some 9 1/2 EE, and some brown ones, and some black ones.
And what else is on sale???
There’s a difference between voluntary surrender/throwing away of virginity and rape, I think.
Losing virginity due to rape is not anything to be ashamed of.
The only person that should be shamed is the rapist while he is swinging by his gonads in the public square.