BIMGO!!! When I read a boy’s name that got into trouble, the mom almost ALWAYS has a DIFFERENT NAME!!! It TRULY is the elaphnt in the room!!
“Why is there no national conversation about the divorce?”
...because without divorce, an entire industry of lawyers would dissolve.
However, I’ve read that, divorced or married, it’s the amount of parental conflict that is the determining factor for the child’s well-being.
But again, it goes back to the lawyer industry. The industry, and the waiting periods that serve to enhance that industry, push trouble couples away from dialogue, and toward inevitable, hostile separations and family breakups.