The gov’t created same sex marriage - let them marry the perverts in their ‘chapels/den of inequity’.
At this point it is time for Christians to marry in the manner of William Wallace in “Braveheart”; simply have a priest/minister declare you married in a ceremony of your choosing, and live according to your beliefs. That would remove state involvement (alimony, etc.), and men would once again be willing to marry.
“Marriage” as defined by the state has become a sham, and the “freaks playing normal” seem to be the most interested in it.