[Chode]

i too am 57 and made the same promise to my Mom back in the 80's, she died at home in peace... God bless you

[TigersEye]

Thank you so much. I am glad you got to keep your promise and take care of your mother. It's difficult but worth it. A blessing in disguise of sorts.

If I need help I will find it. Anyone trying to force their will on the situation will not be appreciated.