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To: Pollster1
Exactly what part of collecting a variety of diseases from total strangers is a positive? Even when I was single, I had absolutely no interest (okay, maybe a little in a few cases, but I always successfully resisted) in the girls who offered casual sex to near strangers. There is no positive spin on STDs or on treating your body like a rental car that everyone takes out for a spin before completely forgetting it.

Absolutely correct.

As a guy, I can attest that nobody wants to marry the "Town Bicycle" or "Everybody's Good Time". It just isn't right, no matter how much these lefty freaks try to lie it into normalcy.

I had a serious GF who divulged an absolutely filthy past, and I dumped her, because to me, she wasn't marriage material. Before I dumped her, I read a ton of forums about the topic (HUGE topic on relationship forums, BTW). It seems that some psychologists or counselors virtually specialize in trying to convince guys that their slutty gf, wife, fiancee, etc, is just an "empowered sexual being" and all of that BS. I saw it as just a bunch of shaming tactics to get a guy to feel guilty and marry a slutty woman. No thanks.

28 posted on 09/22/2012 2:09:10 PM PDT by SIDENET ("If that's your best, your best won't do." -Dee Snider)
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To: SIDENET
It seems that some psychologists or counselors virtually specialize in trying to convince guys that their slutty gf, wife, fiancee, etc, is just an "empowered sexual being" and all of that BS. I saw it as just a bunch of shaming tactics to get a guy to feel guilty and marry a slutty woman. No thanks.

Flip side of that:

A man with extensive premarital sexual experience will try to convince his (inexperienced) wife that his past will make him a better lover and husband, and she should feel grateful that he will "teach" her.

30 posted on 09/22/2012 2:14:57 PM PDT by thecodont
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To: SIDENET

You were a wise man. Somebody like that never stops - except briefly, like for a month or two after the wedding.

They’re people who have accustomed themselves to always be looking for the next, better guy, and even when they think they want to marry someone and devote themselves to something other than sex, they never seem to be able to do it. I guess one morning maybe they’ll just wake up too old and that’s what will stop them.

One of my daughter’s friends was like this and her insane doings never ceased to amaze me. The girl destroyed her own marriage and a couple of long-term relationships because she just couldn’t stop sleeping around. Fortunately, my (married) daughter ended the friendship, because sluts can have a very disastrous influence on everyone around them, including their friends. But the interesting thing was that the girl’s mother had been a Playboy bunny who had spent her entire life sleeping around (until she got too old), so obviously this is learned behavior.

And now Planned Parenthood is trying to teach it to every girl in the land.


33 posted on 09/22/2012 2:23:13 PM PDT by livius
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To: SIDENET
I saw it as just a bunch of shaming tactics to get a guy to feel guilty and...

Profound insight on your part!

It's a rare man indeed that cracks that riddle.

38 posted on 09/22/2012 2:53:28 PM PDT by papertyger
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