well I tell you what, it is about impossible to find a conservative single man, they have all sold out to “self-actualization”
My single experience was not a very pleasant one..I wasn't into the bar thing and that was a big part of the singles scene....The women I dated tended to be long term relationships so I was off the market for long periods of time....I found the whole dating thing superficial.....I'm a whole lot deeper then my skin so I found that type of situation uncomfortable. I did much better in one on one types of encounters. Much less BS.
They are out there. (I'm taken, though).
I think a big issue is female hypergamy, wherein women decide that the men who would be interested in them are not good enough, and the men who are "good enough" have so many women chasing after them that they have no incentive to commit to any one woman. From the woman's perspective, a guy may seem to be "Mr Right", while the guy looks upon the woman as "Miss Good Enough For Tonight".
Another thing driving it is that many (most?) women would rather stay home than go out with a guy who does not meet their standards, while many(most?) guys would rather go out with their best available option than stay home, while still keeping their eyes open for a better deal.
Conservative men seem to gravitate to liberal sluts...maybe you can catch them after their first divorce, but then you’ve got HER to deal with, too.
I met the most intriguing man on the plane the other day. sigh. But he didn’t ask for my number. Too bad! He’d have been such a good fit here, that’s how intriguing he was. LOL