I read your post thoroughly. I don’t know whether to laugh or cry.
Maybe I should take your previous point to heart, and completely stop caring at all what a specific other person thinks.
Does that make things clearer to you? I thought the purpose of posting was because you think that others might actually care what you think, and might actually base their actions on the opinions you express. What would the point be if nobody was supposed to care what other people thought, or to base their actions on what other people thought?