If you come into my dark house in the middle of the night, as this 20 year old did, you’ll also be greeted with a blast of a shotgun, just as the 20 year old was.
And with any luck on my part, you’ll not leave under your own power either.
If you think I’m over reacting, well, just keep that in mind as you come through the door or window.
Look at it from the other perspective.
You kill my 20 kid, who was only partying next door, because YOU forced your POV?
Keep that in mind.