I have a simple philosophy and it is that I’ll take care of my kids, and if you can’t take care of yours, then don’t have any. The concept is not overly difficult, and it should not should be religious or political. That’s the way I see it.
Take care of your own or don’t have any.
Meant to add to my post above...and do not expect others to take care of your kids. This is black and white personal responsibility to me. Do not have kids if you can’t afford them.