He said he wanted kids when we were going out but BACKED OUT after we were married. In fact after we were married I found the sabotaged prophylactics...
Look, you don’t sound happy to me. I don’t know how old you are or how long you’ve been married, or even if it’s too late for you to have children, but maybe you need to talk to somebody about this.
Like I said, if you want to have children and he does not, it’s a big deal. You did not change your mind, he did.
I do hope I’m wrong and that you are happy and okay with the decision.