I worked with a phd born in the Nanking area....he was a child when the Japanese ‘raped’ it...
He would never be caught dead in a Japanese car and would tell anyone who wanted to hear what he thought of the Japanese.....he has gone to his maker now....and I have wondered recently how he would have taken the news of the earthquake/tsunami/meltdown. probably not graciously...and understandably so...
She gave a look of utter disdain and said that she wasn't sure where I got THAT impression.
I apologized and said that ‘yes, no doubt when the Japanese were in China, they didn't earn a reputation for being polite - what with all the rape and murder and slave labor and all.’
On the subject of grabby Japanese men on trains, my s.i.l. pointed out (my brother and I watch a lot of Samurai movies) that she had YET to see a Japanese cinematic depiction of ‘seduction’ that didn't have an element of rape.
Big fan of Japanese culture - other than the sexual weirdness, the shut-ins, and the fascist history. They truly are the Germans of the East. ;)