Don’t agree. The woman never adopted this child. It is a twisted contortion of the law that she should get custody or even visitation rights. She is not the biological mom or even the adopted mom. This is just sick!
And this is one of the consequences of “gay marriage.”
When have you heard of a ex-husband who was not the biological father having legal rights to a child?
You may not agree, but you're not right. You do not need to adopt a child in the state of Vermont to be entitled to visitation privileges, 15 VS § 1201. Miller, of her own free will, entered into a civil union with this other woman. As such, this woman now enjoys certain parenting rights, per VT law.
"When have you heard of a ex-husband who was not the biological father having legal rights to a child?"
It happens all the time.