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'Anne, if you drink this you will die': Why we stood by and allowed our mother to commit suicide
UK Daily Mail ^ | 1/18/09 | Andrea Thompson

Posted on 01/18/2009 9:16:06 AM PST by wagglebee

Sophie Pandit breaks into a smile as she recalls a nervous meeting with Julie Walters last summer. The actress plays Sophie’s mother in a new film and they met after Sophie was invited on set during rehearsals. ‘Don’t worry, I won’t do your mum with a Brummie accent,’ Julie had said mischievously, by way of an ice-breaker.

Sophie knew her mother would have approved. Throughout her life, Anne Turner was known for unleashing her wicked sense of humour to diffuse tension in difficult situations. This never stopped, even in the hours before her death.

Last summer, Sophie, 44, herself an actress, her brother Edward, 42, and sister Jessica, 40, were approached by the BBC, who wanted to make a film about their mother’s extraordinary final years of life.

Three years ago next Saturday, Anne Turner, a 66-year-old retired doctor from Bath, made the journey to the Dignitas assisted suicide clinic in Zurich to take her own life after being diagnosed with progressive supranuclear palsy – a rare, incurable degenerative condition similar to Parkinson’s that gradually destroys nerve cells in the parts of the brain controlling eye movements, breathing and muscle co-ordination, eventually leading to paralysis, making the sufferer totally reliant on others.

‘This was a future Mum refused to accept and on the day she was diagnosed, she told me of her intention to commit suicide,’ says Sophie.

‘We were horrified and deeply upset but as a doctor, Mum was under no illusions about the outcome of her illness. She was a fiercely independent woman and she could not face losing that independence or being physically reliant on others.’

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; United Kingdom
KEYWORDS: assistedsuicide; euthanasia; moralabsolutes; prolife; suicide
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‘I’m far more traumatised by the images of my dad dying a “natural death” – pale and thin like an Auschwitz inmate in his hospital bed – than of my mother drinking barbiturates and dying 20 minutes later.’

Lady, you have this completely backwards.

1 posted on 01/18/2009 9:16:06 AM PST by wagglebee
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2 posted on 01/18/2009 9:16:46 AM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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3 posted on 01/18/2009 9:17:14 AM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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4 posted on 01/18/2009 9:19:37 AM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: wagglebee

Of course, as usual, those who play God leave out the most important piece of information: that one day very soon they are going to have to give an account to the true God.


5 posted on 01/18/2009 9:20:50 AM PST by EternalVigilance (A dedicated, organized, united conservative movement is the only hope for America - www.AIPNEWS.com)
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Obama Says A Baby Is A Punishment

Obama: “If they make a mistake, I don’t want them punished with a baby.”

6 posted on 01/18/2009 9:21:15 AM PST by narses (http://www.theobamadisaster.com/)
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To: wagglebee

Soylent Green, here we come.


7 posted on 01/18/2009 9:22:52 AM PST by Republic of Texas (Socialism Always Fails)
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‘I’m far more traumatised by the images of my dad dying a “natural death” – pale and thin like an Auschwitz inmate in his hospital bed – than of my mother drinking barbiturates and dying 20 minutes later.’

Yes, the dying process can be ugly. This solution, however, is repugnant to the enth degree. I love how these people whitewash Nazi philosophies. They even have the gall to use Auschwitz as the example.

8 posted on 01/18/2009 9:27:52 AM PST by FrdmLvr (What fresh hell is this?)
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To: Republic of Texas; EternalVigilance

Please. This was an individual’s choice, not the state’s. I’d make the same decision.


9 posted on 01/18/2009 9:36:35 AM PST by Pelagius of Asturias
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To: Pelagius of Asturias

Without government brainwashing, I think she’d have made a different choice. In the past, a few people committed suicide under these circumstances, but not with the support of friends, family and country.


10 posted on 01/18/2009 9:39:31 AM PST by Republic of Texas (Socialism Always Fails)
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To: wagglebee

“she was haunted by that image of Mum retching on the barbituates and had nightmares about it.”

Yeah, that was such a better way for your mom to go. No wonder you are having nightmares, girl!


11 posted on 01/18/2009 9:39:35 AM PST by Reddy
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To: Pelagius of Asturias

Thank You! Those who haven’t seen what this disease is have no clue about what they would do.


12 posted on 01/18/2009 9:41:01 AM PST by az wildkitten
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To: Pelagius of Asturias

The right to life is God-given and therefore UNALIENABLE.

The word unalienable has its roots in European property law, and it means that not only can’t something be rightfully taken from you, you have no right to give it away. It belongs to the Sovereign, you see.

At least that is what Americans believe to be part of the basis of our liberty.

Americans who haven’t utterly abandoned the basis for our free republic, anyhow.


13 posted on 01/18/2009 9:41:39 AM PST by EternalVigilance (A dedicated, organized, united conservative movement is the only hope for America - www.AIPNEWS.com)
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To: wagglebee

The death cult continues. Play a parlor game, try to find ways that the Oboamtons and the american Demorcats differ from the Nazis!!
Health nuts, check,,
Adoration art,,,check,
Anti-smoking,,check
Vegetarians,,,check
Eugenics and euthenasia,,check,,
Criminalizing opponents,,,check
Gun control,,,check,,
Pagan retro-religion,,,check,,
Jew-haters,,,check,,,
Indoctrination of children, complete with songs,,check
inform on neighbors ,,, check,,
Shout down speakers just like brownshirts,,,check,,
form alliances with other dictatorships,,,check,,
adore and demand “sacrifice”,,,,
Hate christianity,,, check,,,
Socialism as the ideal,,,check,,
willing to destroy books and newspapers they do not agree with,, check,,

about all i can find is that so far the democrats don’t fly FW-190s and Bf-109s,,,

Creepy, no?


14 posted on 01/18/2009 9:43:05 AM PST by DesertRhino (Dogs earn the title of "man's best friend", Muslims hate dogs,,add that up.)
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To: Reddy

REad on Progressive Supranuclear Palsy,,it was a better way to go, the thirty seconds of retching.

This woman was grown, her decision was hers and not mine or yours. She will face whatever she has to face after death. She was not coerced.


15 posted on 01/18/2009 9:47:09 AM PST by cajungirl (no)
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To: wagglebee

Everyone in the UK is mentally ill.


16 posted on 01/18/2009 9:48:25 AM PST by Condor51 (The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits)
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To: az wildkitten

Death is so like final? No one has to preach to me about
horrors of disease.Suicide is a coward’s way out. Life is once and no matter what happens
there can be joy among suffering.

Those of us who have a faith in God believe life is a gift.
Were not mere vegetables or animals.


17 posted on 01/18/2009 9:50:01 AM PST by ChiMark
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To: az wildkitten
Those who haven’t seen what this disease is have no clue about what they would do.

The culture of death ALWAYS seems to believe that they are the ONLY ones who have ever had to watch a loved one suffer a painful death, this is patently FALSE.

18 posted on 01/18/2009 9:51:35 AM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: wagglebee
If there is any doubt left whatsoever about the role of the media -- that of a propaganda delivery system -- there's no excuse for it.

My question is, why does everyone still stay so tuned in when they know they're being programmed?

19 posted on 01/18/2009 9:52:16 AM PST by the invisib1e hand (revolution is in the air.)
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To: Pelagius of Asturias; Republic of Texas; EternalVigilance
This was an individual’s choice, not the state’s.

Only if the individual believes that they are God.

I’d make the same decision.

That is very sad.

20 posted on 01/18/2009 9:52:52 AM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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