“So where were these kids placed prior to the mainstream rush that’s taken place in the last several years?”
When my son was four, the neurologist who was supposed to be diagnosing him told us to have him institutionalized, and forget him.
I invited the dude out for coffee for one, and pistols for two.
I don’t blame you. Sounds like some of the “professionals” we dealt with early on in the process. They don’t actually know anything. They just read a lot of books.