I do love my in-laws dearly, but whenever I say anything critical, no matter how mild or inocuous I think the comment, I'm likely to hear:
YOU HATE MY FAMILY!!!!!!!
I greatly miss my father- and mother-in-law, both of whom passed away during the past two years. I'll never forget how happy my FIL would look when he'd be cooking for his grandkids. They'd sit at the table, and they carried on the sweetest of conversations.
if the economy turns worse, who knows...we may all be living with dads and moms and sistes and brothers and inlaws...like they used to in the "old" days..