life is not picture perfect. it never has been and it never will be.
Jessica has had a rough time. dont judge her. wish her the best and say a prayer for her.
At the same time, don't celebrate bad decisions like becoming an unwed mother while still going through therapy to recover from injuries.
She and all the other unwed mamas. You've obviously bought into the Culture of Victimization which likes to sprinkle a bit of Christian seasoning ("say a prayer for her") over what was formerly referred to as "sin."
Of course, the real victim here--as in every one of these cases--is another child who will have to raise him/herself unless and until mama and daddy grow up.
Why not judge her? Lot's of people have a hard time. That hasn't stopped them from getting married. I don't see the connection. Is a "hard time" an excuse for immorality? Our society excuses too many things these days...and children are struggling for normalcy because their parents have too many excuses.
I'm not one to judge but having babies out of wedlock doesn't say much for HER judgment or her values and if you feel she had a rough time up til now she definitely is laying the groundwork for a tougher time the rest of her life and for her offspring. I wish her the best regardless.
You said: life is not picture perfect. it never has been and it never will be.
Jessica has had a rough time. dont judge her. wish her the best and say a prayer for her.
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True, life is not picture perfect, but this is not something that "just happens." I am not judging her, but I am judging the choices she has made. I wish her well, but I really wish her child were legitimate.