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My wife and I choose family --- and Plan B
Atlanta Journal-Constitution ^ | August 11, 2006 | David L. Ulin (LATimes)

Posted on 08/11/2006 11:31:16 AM PDT by madprof98

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To: mhuye

Umm, not to be overly contrarian here, but there was no pregnancy aborted in this article. There was birth control. Is recreational sex between married couples now a bad thing? Must all sexual relations between married couples now be specifically to have children?

I do not see this ire directed at those who wear condoms, or who use other forms of birth control. Why this?


21 posted on 08/11/2006 11:51:30 AM PDT by dmz
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To: madprof98
This is our decision, our sense of what is right, our individual accountability. It's what I think of when I hear that amorphous term "pro-choice," the choice to live as I see fit, to make decisions and deal with the consequences.

These are the same people who enthusiastically support politicians who tell us how much water we can have in our toilets, where and how much we can smoke, etc. Some "choice."

22 posted on 08/11/2006 11:52:02 AM PDT by denydenydeny ("Osama... made the mistake of confusing media conventional wisdom with reality" (Mark Steyn))
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To: madprof98; Mrs. Don-o; Campion; Coleus

I practice NFP. Maybe this author should consider that and not look on fertility with such hatred. This article is so sad on so many levels :(


23 posted on 08/11/2006 11:52:22 AM PDT by cyborg (No I don't miss the single life at all.)
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To: madprof98

"My wife and I are stretched thin with two kids and two jobs, with school, rent, clothing, health insurance, time. Yet more to the point, we love our family as it is, love the balance among the four of us, the dynamic, the emotional interplay."
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So SELFISH and SELFCENTERED it's stunning.


24 posted on 08/11/2006 11:52:46 AM PDT by wmfights (Lead, Follow, or Get Out Of The WAY!)
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To: madprof98
To be sure, there's a pragmatic element at work here: My wife and I are stretched thin with two kids and two jobs, with school, rent, clothing, health insurance, time. Yet more to the point, we love our family as it is, love the balance among the four of us, the dynamic, the emotional interplay

Put bluntly... we're selfish. The notion that another child in a family that has only two is a stretch on ones financial or emotional well being is absolute nonsense. Your parents raised typically 4.. and your grandparents 6 or 7... What an idiotic argument.

If you believe life begins at conception, plan B is murder... if you don't that's fine you are welcome to that belief... but to come here and basically portray yourself as believing life begins at conception, but I'm going to use the morning after pill because I'm being responsible.. you are an abject idiot.

25 posted on 08/11/2006 11:52:50 AM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: dmz

God said be fruitful and multiply. Nothing wrong with having an ooops baby. Better having an oops baby than aborting a newly conceived life.


26 posted on 08/11/2006 11:54:52 AM PDT by cyborg (No I don't miss the single life at all.)
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To: madprof98
We weren't trying to avoid responsibility, but rather to embrace it.

So that's what they call it.

This reminds me of a time I argued with a stupid leftist. She was whining that the state legislature was considering pulling public funding for condom distribution at Planned Parenthood and this was bad for college students. I mentioned she try personal responsibility when it came to acquiring condoms instead of relying on the taxpayer to buy them for her. She didn't understand. Liberals don't understand. Liberals seem to have fundamental problems grasping basic concepts such as theft, personal responsibility, freedom, liberty, etc.

27 posted on 08/11/2006 11:55:32 AM PDT by MichiganConservative (Government IS the problem.)
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To: madprof98
Doesn't it seem irresponsible for a couple in their forties to not take care of this in a somewhat permanent way? I mean, if you are done having children, it's just not that hard to put an end to the potential of unintended pregnancy BEFORE it happens.

Irresponsibility potential doesn't disappear just because you hit forty. Choices have consequences. Unexpected life is one of those.

He is desperately trying to say...We are responsible, we're married, we hold down jobs, we're not anti-children and anti-marriage...we're not stupid teenagers. We are the just regular folk who had an accident.

Yep. Sure. Sir, you may be in your 40s, but you still "act" like stupid teenagers. Why? Because we all make mistakes young and old. The difference is that mature people own up to them and accept the consequences and make the best of the situation.
28 posted on 08/11/2006 11:57:30 AM PDT by pollyannaish
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To: madprof98

At the core of mdern birth control is hatred for women, esp. woman's fertility. There's never been a male drug for fertility EVER because researchers were worried about shrinking male testicles. As if a little shrinkage is worse than months of bad periods and hormnal upheaval. This guy is crazy!


29 posted on 08/11/2006 11:58:26 AM PDT by cyborg (No I don't miss the single life at all.)
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To: dmz
Is recreational sex between married couples now a bad thing? Must all sexual relations between married couples now be specifically to have children?

Of course not. But if this guy in his 40s knew he didn't want anymore children then he should have been snipped before this happened. Then he wouldn't have to worry whether it was an abortion or not...not that this writer seemed to care.

30 posted on 08/11/2006 11:59:14 AM PDT by TXBubba ( Democrats: If they don't abort you then they will tax you to death.)
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To: cyborg

Plan B doesn't work if you are already pregnant. It is not an abortion.

I am not aware of God prohibiting recreational sex between married couples.


31 posted on 08/11/2006 12:00:12 PM PDT by dmz
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To: 50sDad
If a child must die so that you can live better, you are is living in poverty.

Well said.

32 posted on 08/11/2006 12:00:58 PM PDT by Izzy Dunne (Hello, I'm a TAGLINE virus. Please help me spread by copying me into YOUR tag line.)
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To: madprof98

These sons of bi*ches.

I just had a similar experience. I already have a 17yr old, and a 4 yr old.

My wife comes up and tells me she's pregnant, even though she's been on birth control. (She admitted forgetting to take it a "few" times, thanks)

The LAST thing in the world I wanted at 40 yrs old was another child. But, Abortion? Not possible. Not even a discussion.

We'll just be more careful next time..But this time, we got a baby on the way and that's that. We'll just stretch things a little thinner. A little less foolish spending, no new cars etc. We'll manage, and we'll love the daylights out of our newest addition. To me, that's the only choice aside from giving ones child up for adoption (which I couldn't do, but the people in the story should've thought about)

I don't understand how people can justify their own selfishness through the murder of an innocent baby, and I never will...and I'm not even a churchgoer.


33 posted on 08/11/2006 12:02:25 PM PDT by Greenpees (Coulda Shoulda Woulda)
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To: dmz

Umm where did I say God prevented a couple from having sex? BTW, what's the difference? Is is? Sex is sex. Is there a non-recreational sex that isn't fun? Sheesh. Birth control pills kill a woman's hormones and is poison for her body. Those are the facts!


34 posted on 08/11/2006 12:03:47 PM PDT by cyborg (No I don't miss the single life at all.)
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To: Greenpees

I suggest you consider a vasectomy, if you're done having children...


35 posted on 08/11/2006 12:05:44 PM PDT by Spktyr (Overwhelmingly superior firepower and the willingness to use it is the only proven peace solution.)
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To: cyborg

You didn't say, nor did I attribute those words to you. Calm yourself a tad.

But now I do understand where you are coming from a bit better, you object to birth control of any variety. I take no issue with that, I disagree , but won't certainly slam you for your beliefs. I wonder if I'll be accorded the same courtesy.


36 posted on 08/11/2006 12:07:36 PM PDT by dmz
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To: Spktyr

You're correct, of course. But at least until the baby is born, I'm going to party on.

After that, snip snip snip.


37 posted on 08/11/2006 12:08:41 PM PDT by Greenpees (Coulda Shoulda Woulda)
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To: madprof98

How sad, a husband and wife have to feel fear that they might make a baby. What a statement about married life and the current value of children in our society.


38 posted on 08/11/2006 12:08:47 PM PDT by colorado tanker
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To: NoFoxholeAthiests

Interesting analogy. I looked up Molech on the net and found this little tidbit -It's just a theory, and I don't know how true it is, but here it is:

In 1921 Otto Eissfeldt, excavating in Carthage, discovered inscriptions with the word mlk which in the context meant neither 'king' nor the name of any god. He concluded that it was instead a term for a particular kind of sacrifice, one which at least in some cases involved human sacrifice. A relief was found showing a priest holding a child. Also uncovered was a sanctuary to the goddess Tanit comprising a cemetery with thousands of burned bodies of animal and of human infants, dating from the 8th century BC down to the destruction of Carthage in 146 BC. Eissfeldt identified the site as a tophet, using a Hebrew word of previously unknown meaning connected to the burning in some Biblical passages. Most of the children's bodies appeared to be those of newborns, but some were older, up to about six years of age.

Eissfeldt further concluded that the Hebrew writings were not talking about a god Moloch at all, but about the molk or mulk sacrifice, that the abomination was not in worshipping a god Molech who demanded children be sacrificed to him, but in the practice of sacrificing human children as a molk. Hebrews were strongly opposed to sacrificing first-born children as a molk to Yahweh himself. The practice may have been conducted by their neighbors in Canaan. The relevant Scriptural passages depict Yahweh condemning such practices in harsh terms. Hebrews who made such a sacrifice were executed by stoning. Any who knew about such a sacrifice, and did not act to prevent it, were ejected from the community along with their family.


39 posted on 08/11/2006 12:09:04 PM PDT by I still care ("Remember... for it is the doom of men that they forget" - Merlin, from Excalibur)
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To: dmz

I don't care what you believe. I'm not trying to change your mind. I'm dealing with facts of artifical birth control.


40 posted on 08/11/2006 12:11:08 PM PDT by cyborg (No I don't miss the single life at all.)
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