I don't want same sex marriage in my state, and there is no threat to that. Neither you nor I have any right to interfere in the constitutional wrangling within the state of Massachusetts. They will eventually work it out. Either the people will pass an amendment prohibiting same sex marriage or they will permit same sex marriage by not altering their constitution.
Believe me I share their frustration. I know it was a 4 to 3 decision, but such decisions are made routinely in every state and in the USSC. As you point out though, it is now clearly within the power of the voters. They must speak loudly. I understand it is supposed to come up again this summer.
Are any of your friends in Massachusetts married, and if so, how have the same sex marriages affected your friends' marriages?